Compare yourself now with the one 5 years ago.

Second by second, minute by minute, the flow of time still goes on. It makes something be languished, especial unhappy memories, changes many things, people a little bit or in completely way, include me. Although I still keep the same characteristic like what I was from past to now, my viewpoints have been changed a lot.

            From many commends of my friends, they said that I still have the same looking like I was 5 years ago. The first, my hair is always short and straight. It makes me look like a modern and active girl, but I am not, because I cry whenever I am sad and get some big mistakes. I am still weak. One more thing, I always dress serious when I go out. My clothes hardly have pink color, a favorite color of girl. I would like black and white on my clothes with a bit classical style. Next, I still like listen to music, and read detective stories, which take me a lot of hours a day whenever I had free time.

      Despite the similarities, my points of view are different from before. The first think I have changed is my opinion about life. When I was younger, I thought if I am sincere with people, they would do it in return to me any time I need while the truth is not alike, and I must get used to with it. For example, one of my roommates forgot her materials in renting room, she called me for help. At that time, I immediately stopped my homework to bring the books for her although I had a test this afternoon. On the other hand, she ignored my need, she stayed at room, did a hand-make gift for her friend’s birthday. Secondly, I am more open minded than before. In the past, with me, true is true and false is false, I did not admit any reasons for every mistake, but now I try to listen and understand the reasons and sympathize to people. Indeed, the roommate who made me disappointed before said sorry and explained the reason she did that. Her friend would leave school after this party, so she wanted give him a present as the thing remind him about her. I think this reason is reasonable, so I forgive her. Finally, I realize that I must stand on my foot without any help because my lover can’t be always with me. One day, I had a bad mark on my favorite subject, I called my father for a advice. I did not say about it because my father was very busy and my mother was ill. I promised with myself that I have to try more. I do not lament about my studying any more.

            To sum up, my changes help me more mature, more self-confidence, and my similarities between now and before help me fell that I still be a little girl in my friend’s mind. Time can change any thing. The change helps us grow up, so we do not need to regret when time bring some good thing which was belong to you far away. It will bring you another better.