What is happiness?

          What is happiness is a simple question, but it still not has an exactly answer. People have many opinions in this object. There are 2 main ideas. They are: happiness is being loved by others, or happiness is loved and being loved by others. It is difficult to say which one is right, but in my opinion happiness is loved and being loved by others.

          When we have good conditions for your life, good job with high salary, but no one love us and we don’t care anyone. Is that a happy life? I think it is not, so I think happiness is loved and being loved by others. First, loved and being loved by others help our life more meaningful, and we will have a better life than others, who don’t. when we are being loved by others, we feel very happy. Whenever we have problems, they will help us to solve these, and because we don’t want to make them fell disappointed, we will try our best to come over the difficulty. Example, when I studied for the examination to get a place in university, it was a stressful and tired time, sometime I wanted give up, but I can’t because of my family’s caring. I tried my best, as the result I got it. Moreover, if we loved others, we will be happy when our lovers are happy, and if they are sad, we will be, too. At that time, we shared with them, or found the ways to help them so that we feel we are helpful, the life is more meaningful, and we cat get experience for ourselves to solve the same problems.

        Second, loved and to be loved help us not to be a selfish person. If we just being loved by many people, we will think that they must  do that, and we will become a” the more you have, the more you want” person. If we are, we always fell upset because we don’t know how to satisfy with what we have, and how to love others, and the result is when we go faraway, we get shocks and can’t stand firm whenever difficulty come. Many people have argued that we loved others, we gave a lots, but sometime these people don’t feedback, and at this time, we are hurt. This may be true, but  it does not mean I wrong, because it is just sometime and life is not fair.  We are hurt, we can know the worth of love exactly.

          Existence is important. Existence with happiness is more important, so try to learn how to love and to be loved by other people. Please, believe that if we truly love, we are being love truly.